The Link Between Parental Love and Child Well-Being
From the Realities of Mawlana (Q) as taught by Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi.
A’uzu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
I seek refuge in Allah from Satan, the rejected one
In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful
Alhamdulillahi Rabbil ‘aalameen, was salaatu was salaamu ‘alaa Ashrafil Mursaleen, Sayyidina wa Mawlana Muhammadul Mustafa ﷺ. Madad ya Sayyidi ya Rasulul Kareem, Ya Habibul ‘Azeem, unzur halana wa ishfa’lana, ‘abidona bi madadikum wa nazarekum.
Atiullah wa atiur Rasul wa Ulil amre minkum. Always a reminder for myself, ana abdukal ‘ajeez, wa dayeef, wa miskin, wa zhalim, wa jahl, and but for the grace of Allah (AJ) that we’re still in existence.
أَطِيعُوا اللَّهَ وَأَطِيعُوا الرَّسُولَ وَأُولِي الْأَمْرِ مِنكُم… ﴿٥٩﴾ …
4:59 – “…Atiullaha wa atiur Rasula wa Ulil amre minkum…” (Surat an-Nisa)
“…Obey Allah, obey the Messenger, and those in authority among you…” (The Women, 4:59)
Ask that Allah (AJ) grant the madad and support of Sultanul Awliya (King of Saints) Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Nazim Haqqani (Q) from his Bahrul Muhabbat – the immense oceans of Divinely love that Mawlana Shaykh (Q) dispensed upon this Earth and upon the hearts of ‘ashiqeen (lovers) and muhibbin (lovers of the way).
Holy Hadith: ‘Youll Be with Whom You Love’
Alhamdulillah a reminder that the holy Hadith of Prophet ﷺ that a Bedouin came into the Jum’ah (Friday prayer) and interrupted Sayyidina Muhammad ﷺ, kept asking, ‘Sayyidi ya Rasulallah when is qiyamah (resurrection)?’ Because the yaqeen (certainty) and the sincerity of servants and companions of Sayyidina Muhammad ﷺ with such a certainty believing in all the signs and all the teachings in which they surpassed time and space and so they begin to see. From what he ﷺ teaches, they see, they sense. He kept asking and interrupting the Jum’ah that, ‘When is qiyamah?’
Then third time, ‘Sayyidi ya Rasulallah when is qiyamah,’ out of fear and panic and distress within the heart. Prophet ﷺ asked that, ‘What have you prepared for qiyamah?’ The answer is the immense ocean and the reality of muhabbat (love) that, ‘The rules are many but all that I was capable of preparing was love for Allah (AJ) and you, for Sayyidina Abu Bakr (as) and Umar (as)’ signifying the companions. ‘My love for Allah (AJ) and you Sayyidi ya Rasulallah ﷺ.’ Prophet ﷺ said ‘Then you’ll be with whom you love.’
عَنْ أَنَسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ: أَنَّ رَجُلاً، سَأَلَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ عَنِ السَّاعَةِ، فَقَالَ- مَتَى السَّاعَةُ؟ قَالَ ﷺ: ” وَمَاذَا أَعْدَدْتَ لَهَا ؟ ” قَالَ- لاَ شَىْءَ إِلاَّ أَنِّي أُحِبُّ اللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُ ﷺ . فَقَالَ ﷺ: ” أَنْتَ مَعَ مَنْ أَحْبَبْتَ.” [اَلْمَصْدَرْ: مُسْلِمْ:. ٧٥٢٠ ]
‘An Anasin (ra): Anna rajulan sa-ala AnNabiya ﷺ ‘anis sa’ati, faqala: mata assahatu? Qala ﷺ “Wa mazaa a’dadta laha?” Qala: La shaya illa anni ohebbu Allaha wa Rasulahu ﷺ. Faqala ﷺ : “Anta ma’a man ahbabta.”
Narrated Anas ibn Malik (ra) that: A man asked the Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) about the Hour (i.e. Day of Judgment) saying, “When will the (final) Hour be?” The Prophet (pbuh) said, “What have you prepared for it?” The man said, “Nothing, except that I love Allah and His Messenger (pbuh).” The Prophet (pbuh) said, “You will be with whom you love.” [Source: By Muslim 7520]
We’re Created with Divinely Love at Our Atomic Level
From just this holy Hadith is an immense ocean that, ‘You’ll be with whom you love’ then it’s also correct then ‘Whom you love will be with you.’ You carry with a bond. Your atomic structure its most powerful bond is a Divine love. Weak force, nuclear attraction. Greater force is a love wanting to come to the nucleus. There has to be a slightly stronger force saying, ‘Not right now.’ It means everything within our elements are built upon this Divine love. Not the love that people know or think they know. But the reality of ishq and the reality of wadood (love) that Allah (AJ) put within you – a mass attraction in which your whole being wants to enter back into Divinely Presence. So means that in every aspect of our reality we look and Allah (AJ) created us with this Divinely love.
Approach Allah (AJ) With Heart and Soul
As a result awliyaullah (saints) came into our lives and taught us that your approach to Allah (AJ) is through your heart. That their teachings will ignite, try to ignite the hearts of people in which their heart has an attraction. There’s a softness within the teaching and there’s a goodness within the company and the fellowship. As a result, it opens the heart and that light and that love enters within the heart. As a result, your soul will draw near them. Your body and nafs (ego) may have many ego issues but your soul will draw near them.
If you continue to love and open your heart, the soul of that one will be near you and with you at all times and you carry who you love with your heart, with your heart and soul. How they describe it, ‘Oh I love you with my heart and soul.’ Well because the heart is the home of the soul and that which you let it into will affect the soul. If you love bad, well then the danger is that badness is affecting the soul and if you love good, that goodness is dressing the soul.
Raising Your Children
Western Philosophy Versus Islamic Philosophy
In the midst of all of these difficulties and all of these examples of all this horrific energies and events that are happening and sicknesses that are coming and have come and are coming and it doesn’t stop. At every, every angle we’re seeing difficulties are approaching. Everyone’s senses and feels that and they begin to ask that, ‘What about our youngest ones?’ Because anyone whom has a family, because Allah (AJ) says ‘It’s half your faith to have a family.’ Why? Because you understand selflessness. It’s not any more about you that oh, you can eat and you have a place to sleep and you have a sense of belief. Soon as you have a family it’s about where they’re going to sleep, where they’re going to eat, what they’re going to eat, where are they going to be safe.
They begin to have a concern that what do we do with our children during all of these horrific energies. They have one month of complete deprogramming and trying to reorient them in different directions, non-stop bombarding with their mind, with their belief, with their energies. How do we protect them? Said, ‘This Hadith is giving us it’s medicine.’ That Prophet ﷺ prescribed for us that in the first seven years of their life, love them. Because in this you should understand madad (support) and why they teach madad. That teach your children to love you. Build the bond of ishq and love so that to draw near to you.
(i) – a: Western Ideology Promotes the Demonic Understandings of Satanists
Western ideology is completely incorrect. Their understanding of children rearing and raising children is demonic. Most of their foundations were by satanists in which they did horrific experiments on children and they came out with a whole belief of sexuality and all sorts of demonic, demonic understandings. Islamic belief from Prophet ﷺ – love them. As a result of loving them, nurture them, be with them, sleep near them, embrace them. Why? Because you’re training them in madad so that when the child builds a bond with you, loves you, understands that you’re a sense of security and passion and compassion for them. As a result of that bond they’re drawing near to you.
Now look at their other philosophy is that put them in a room and let them scream. They immediately lost the bond of relying upon you. They have no trust in you anymore, they have no bond of love with you. Because you broke that by this demonic ideology that later has plans for them. You know, don’t be ignorant! They have a plan to separate you from your family and indoctrinate them and educate them and delude them.
(i) – b: Islamic Ideology Promotes the Understandings of Madad and Love
Where Prophet ﷺ is giving to us – they should be bonded with you, love you, you’re the source of power and protection and nourishment for them. As a result, their madad became strong to you and because their love for you, your light is all-encompassing on them. They carry you wherever they go. Love carries whom it loves wherever they go. So in this world of difficulty from beginning of time to the last of time and the last of time – the most dangerous of times. That it’s only through love they will carry us where they go and when they don’t have the understanding yet to do their madad, to do their practices, to do all their wazifas (spiritual practices), to do all their awrads (daily practices).
Because Prophet ﷺ gave to us, ‘No, no at the beginning it’s love.’ 7 to 14 [years of age], it’s teaching. 14, 21 [years of age] they’re like adults, you’re going to be friends with them. So it means if the love is bonding they carry you wherever they go. As a result, your light is all-encompassing around them because this is the reality of the soul, this is what’s being taught to those who forgot. They grew up and they forgot our way. So the immensity is then children have to be raised with love. Then the family has to do.
(ii) – a: Islamic Ideology is Based on Shari’ah (Divine Law) Which is the Natural Law
The one whom has ‘aqel (intellect) and intelligence they do their zikrs (Divine remembrances), they do their awrads, they do all their practices because they’re the shield that encompasses the entire family. When they do their practices then that love that the child is relying upon, it sustains them. Why? Because financially they’re providing, you’re eating, give a roof over their head and houses them. Most important is that their spiritual soul is all around them and the soul is not empty. It’s a soul that’s doing its practices, building its energy.
So we build our energy not for my own sake, ‘I don’t need it. Who cares?’ But that they’re relying on it. It’s like a parent who sits home and doesn’t want to make any food for them. You don’t want to go out and provide and they just sit there and they don’t know what to eat? That wasn’t your responsibility from Allah (AJ) and they have no shelter over their heads? But in these days what becomes more apparent is they’re relying upon us for protection. They’re carrying that love, they’re making the madad and then that energy has to help them, shield them, protect them. So this was the shari’ah (Divine Law) which is the natural law.
(ii) – b: Western Ideology is Based on Unnatural and Immoral Laws
What they do is not natural; unnatural, immoral. Islamic law is the law of nature, what’s natural, what comes natural to a being that every creature takes its child and brings it near. To why? Because the whole animal kingdom going to eat it. Don’t take your child and put him in a room, shut the door, psychologically begin to now put a trauma on them. They break all their reliance upon you, they build no trust for you.
Then they look into the statistics of mass murderers and serial killers, they had issues with their mom, they had issues with broken families. It always relates back to issues with familial ties that disturbed them, broke all of their spiritual energies and then they become broken. In these days of difficulty and these days of immense horror of what’s happening then they build a bond, they build a relationship. They’ll carry that love as their shield where they go so that your energy is around them at all times.
Concept of Madad and Its Importance for Adults
Understanding Your Home Will Lead You to Understand Your Shaykh
When you understood your home, you’ll understand the shaykh. If you don’t understand your home then the concept of the shaykh makes no difference to you either. When you understood your home that, ‘I have nothing to give them, I don’t have the energy to give to them,’ and then Allah (AJ) reminding then, ‘Remind them, as they were supposed to do in their childhood, they grew up too fast and became too smart for themselves. They’ve got to go back to the sense of love.’ Because you too as an adult when you have love, you’re going to carry now the one whom you love with you everywhere.
Protecting Your Family in These Difficult Times Requires Madad Through Strong Love
So when the man of the family realizes that, ‘What I’m in need of for my home is beyond my capability of money and providing and giving a roof. I need a madad and support. I see the sicknesses that are coming, I see all of the creatures vying for them, trying to destroy them, manipulate their belief, their systems, their entire soul is in danger.’ You know if they catch one of these children and change the direction of their soul and what they believe and how they want to orient them – not orient towards paradise but orient towards hell. So then it’s a reminder that Allah (AJ) shows then – it’s same for the adults, it’s the madad.
Love is the Easiest Way to Access Divinely Energy
As soon as they enter into these associations, that Hadith is then for the adults too, ‘You’ll be with whom you love.’ Your love was, your responsibility was only to love them. That’s something so simple seems to be so difficult for people because our ways are a completely different secret. Other ways they think we should sit down, bring out all sorts of fiqh (Islamic Jurisprudence) books and start teaching people. Those are for the people whom have recruited themself for that belief to have fiqh, to have jurisprudence and to read law books and to document footnotes.
But this way of love is so much more powerful and it appeals to the masses of people whom didn’t sign up to memorize jurisprudence but they came in to enter into this way of love. That have good character, open your heart man! As soon as you open your heart, what happens? Then the love of that person is always with you and the shield of that one whom you know is more spiritually powerful than yourself is always with you and you carry him and you carry his love wherever you go and you verify it and you nurture that love.
Approach Through Love and Divinely Lights Will Start Entering into Your Soul
Because with your child you’ll learn every day, ‘I love you Baba, I love you Baba,’ and the child has to hear it all the time. Some children will come and say, ‘I never heard my dad say I love you.’ It’s very vile to Prophet ﷺ because they came to Prophet ﷺ, ‘I don’t know you all this hugging and kissing you do for children, we don’t have like that.’ He said, ‘What can I do for a man who has no rahmah (mercy) in his heart,’ means he was turned off by that type of expression.
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِّيَّ اللهُ عَنْه, أَنَّ الْأَقْرَعَ بْنَ حَابِسٍ, أَبْصَرَ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ يُقَبِّلُ الْحَسَنَ عَلَيْهِ السَّلَامُ: فَقَالَ: “إِنَّ لِي عَشْرَةً مِنْ الْوَلَدِ مَا قَبَّلْتُ وَاحِدًا مِنْهُمْ” فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ: “إِنَّهُ مَنْ لَا يَرْحَمْ لَا يُرْحَمْ”
[صَحِيحُ مُسْلِمٍ 2318أ]
‘An Abi Hurairah (ra) ‘anna al Aqra’a bin Habis, ‘absara an Nabiyya ﷺ yuqabbilu al Hasana (as) faqala: “Innali ‘ashratan min al waladi ma qabbaltu wahidan minhum faqala Rasulullahi ﷺ: “Innahu man la yarham la yurham.”
[Saḥiḥ Muslim 2318a]
Abu Hurairah (ra) reported that al-Aqra’a bin Habis saw Allah’s Apostle (pbuh) kissing Imam al Hassan (as). He said: I have ten children, but I have never kissed any one of them, whereupon Allah’s Messenger (pbuh) said: “He who does not show mercy (towards his children), no mercy would be shown to him.” [Sahih Muslim 2318a]
That they have to hear love, they have to hear bonding, they have to see the closeness, the touching and embracing of children so that they understand what love is. Otherwise they’re raised in abuse and then they have to be deprogrammed and reprogrammed as adults but that’s not the Islamic way. The Islamic way was through ishq (love) and muhabbat. Right. Then as soon as you grew up you said, ‘Yeah of course I had immense love from my father, my father had an immense love for me,’ then it was so easy to meet these ‘ashiqeen. Then open your heart to love them and when you love them and approach through love, all they need is for your heart to be open and these lights begin to enter into your soul. That, ‘I love you with my heart and now my soul is bonded with you,’ and that’s what they were in need of. Why? Because that’s the madad.
When You Love Your Shaykh His Energy Surrounds You and Becomes Your Shield of Protection
As soon as you’re bonding with that love and you give your expressions of love, you support, you commit, means everything that shows its love because it’s not only through tongue I say, ‘I love you,’ it’s through the actions that Allah (AJ) looks to. As soon as they open their heart and take that commitment, the light of those shaykhs are with that person – that becomes their shield, that becomes their energy, that becomes their portal, whatever word people want to use that is familiar for them. As a result, wherever that man goes, that love is there.
For women it’s Hajjah Amina (Q). They don’t want women connecting with men. That you connect your heart with Hajjah Amina (Q) Mawlana Shaykh’s Sultanul Awliya’s (Q) wife, visualize her, connect your heart with her, ask your questions from her, take from us our teachings. But for the men, connect your heart. As soon as that light begins to come, it’s all around you. Now those whom love you will be entitled to that same light and love and you see how that moves. Bcause that’s what the shaykh is doing.
Door to Divine Love – Serving Your Shaykh With Your Entire Being
That, his life was committed to the service of his shaykh with everything. His entire being was given to them. As a result, they dressed him from their Divinely love and as a result their bay’at (pledge of allegiance) is true. Allah’s (AJ) with them, Prophet ﷺ is with them and their shaykhs are with them. As a result of that light with them, that light is not leaving.
So then whoever loves them, brings the whole of that reality to be present with them. As a result, wherever they are, somebody connects, then all that light is entering into their homes, all that light entering into wherever they go, wherever they move, wherever they walk and all who love you will now be entitled to that light.
System of Powerful Pandemic of Love
Why Satan Wants to Block Love?
That’s how that system of light is moving immensely fast, immensely contagious. Right? This love is so powerful; a pandemic of love. It moves so fast versus not the other way. Sit as a scholar, ‘I’m going to read to you all these 50 books, you’re going to write them, you’re going to memorize them. There’s nothing of love based on that so I don’t love you. I have to read these books now.’ That’s a completely different academia. This system of contagious pandemic love that spreads like wildfire that shaitan (satan) is immensely against that, ‘Don’t talk about love. You know, block the tariqahs (spiritual paths), block these ways of muhabbat,’ because now we understand through the energy that how real it is.
Love Isn’t From the Head, It’s From the Heart
When you love somebody who is spiritually built, spiritually has improved themselves and continuously receiving their faiz (downpouring blessings), that light is with you from a bond of love not from ‘aqel. It has to not make any sense to your head because your head is not the one able to hold them. Your head can convince you all you want, ‘This is not right, this is not that, this is not that.’ But the heart knows.
Since we came to tariqah with “La ilaha illAllah” (there is no deity but Allah). La [to head], ilaha [to right chest], illAllah [into heart]. Nobody knows this ocean of faith. That was with Sayyidina Nuh (as). He’s given to build a ship and everybody cursing him, ‘Why are you building this ship?’ They come and say, ‘Why are you following the tariqah? Why are you following these guys? Why are you following this? Why are you following that?’ Because this is a path of love. It doesn’t make sense to their brain because it’s not supposed to be in the brain, it’s supposed to be in the heart.
When Love Enters, It Intercedes and Supports You
When you open the heart and you love, that energy enters, that energy fills and moves all around, that energy gives me a support against demonic attack. That energy gives us support against every type of sickness and ailment that, ‘Ya Rabbi I’m not able to resolve an issue, please send a madad and support.’ Those whom you love will be with you and that’s the intercession of Sayyidina Muhammad ﷺ. It’s the whole aqidah (belief) of Ahlus Sunnah (People of Prophetic Tradition). That the love of Prophet ﷺ is coming, he’s always with you. He sees, ‘What’s this, what’s that sickness coming, what’s this energy that’s coming toward them?’ Immediately intercede. So with love we carry this energy.
Reality of The Spiritual Practices Shaykhs Give to Their Students
Then they give us the spiritual practices, ‘Do these awrads, do these zikrs.’ Why? To prove your love because love is something that Allah (AJ) is asking to prove. So now from the shaykh to the student go now to Allah (AJ). Well, then in every salah (daily prayer) you have to say, “Ashhadu an la ilaha illallah wa ashhadu anna Muhammadan Rasulallah ﷺ.”
أَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إلاَّ الله وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدًاعَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ
“Ashhadu an la ilaha illallah, wa ashhadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhu wa Rasulu.”
“I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad is the messenger of Allah.”
Why? Allah (AJ) doesn’t know your faith? But Allah (AJ) loves to hear it, wants you to hear it. That verify for yourself and reconfirm to yourself how many times a day, ‘Ya Rabbi I love you,’ and Allah’s (AJ) reply back to His servant, ‘And I love you too. Ask Me and I give you, ask for forgiveness and I grant you.’ Why? Allah (AJ) knows it all, there shouldn’t have been any interaction. We could have just come on the earth, He say, ‘I know your intention, that’s it. You’re into charcoal, you’re in this direction, you’re in that direction,’ but it’s an expression of love. Allah (AJ) wants to hear from the servant that you testify that there’s nothing but Allah (AJ) and that Muhammadun ﷺ is the Rasul (Messenger) of Allah (AJ). So even Allah (AJ) is asking us, ‘Continuously tell Me how much you love Me, talk to Me and ask Me, draw near to Me, I’ll be closer to you than your jugular vein.’
(١٦) وَنَحْنُ أَقْرَبُ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ حَبْلِ الْوَرِيدِ …
50:16 – “…wa Nahnu aqrabu ilaihi min hablil wareed.” (Surat Qaf)
“…and We are closer to him than [his] jugular vein.” (The Letter Qaf, 50:16)
Then it moves all the way down the chain, love Prophet ﷺ more than you love yourself and then the light of Muhammadun Rasulallah ﷺ is then with the servant, accompanying the servant. “Shahidan, Mubashshiran, wa Nazeeran.”
(٤٥) يَا أَيُّهَا النَّبِيُّ إِنَّا أَرْسَلْنَاكَ شَاهِدًا وَمُبَشِّرًا وَنَذِيرًا
33:45 – “Ya ayyuhan Nabiyu inna arsalnaka Shahidan wa Mubashshiran wa Nazeera.” (Surat Al-Ahzab)
“O Prophet, indeed We have sent you as a Witness and a Bearer of Glad Tidings and a Warner.” (The Combined Forces, 33:45)
When You Love Your Shaykh You Carry His Light With You
Allah (AJ) in ayatul kareem (the generous verse of Holy Qur’an) describing in Qur’an that – he’s ever witness over his community. That he sends “mubashshiran” lights upon them and then “nazeeran” continuously guiding and inspiring, ‘Stay away from something that’s dangerous.’ Then Allah (AJ) gave us to our lives ‘ashiqeen whom they love Prophet ﷺ, they gave their entire life for that reality. As a result, made it easy to move amongst people and to be loved. That love them, open your heart, be with them, be of service to their mission and as a result your heart opens. As soon as your heart opens, you carry that light and you carry that light back into your home.
Story of Sayyidina Musa (as) and How He Brought Back Light For His Community
What Sayyidina Musa (as) when he was wandering through the desert and he saw a fire at a distance and he said, ‘Perchance, I go to that fire to bring back some light back.’
(١٠) إِذْ رَأَىٰ نَارًا فَقَالَ لِأَهْلِهِ امْكُثُوا إِنِّي آنَسْتُ نَارًا لَّعَلِّي آتِيكُم مِّنْهَا بِقَبَسٍ أَوْ أَجِدُ عَلَى النَّارِ هُدًى
20:10 – “Iz ra aa naaran faqaala li ahlihim kusooo inneee aanastu naaral la’alleee aateekum minhaa biqabasin aw ajidu ‘alan naari hudaa” (Surat Taha)
‘When he saw a fire and said to his family, “Stay here; indeed, I have perceived a fire; perhaps I can bring you a torch or find at the fire some guidance.”’ (Taha, 20:10)
Because he knew there’s a Divine reality and ‘Let me go to that reality,’ because nobody leaves Allah (AJ) empty-handed. That, ‘I’ll take this light and I come back for my community and for my people who will take that light from their ishq and their love for me and it’ll be dispensed, like a speed of fire it’ll be dispensed just by love.’ Not by belief in their head, not by making logical sense in their mind and convincing somebody in their mind.
You Can’t Convince Anyone to Love You
It’s not a mind path, it’s just a heart path. Just like with your children, you don’t have to convince them to love you. If you do, something’s wrong. [Parent] ‘Oh you have to love me.’ [Child] ‘No, I don’t know why I have to love you. I could have loved anyone else. Why I have to love you?’ It’s not something that is through your head, it’s through your heart.
Celebration of Holy Nights: Gaining the Nazar (Gaze) of Holy Souls Upon Ourselves and Our Families
We pray that Allah (AJ) open on these holy nights the immensity and the power of ishq and muhabbat. That if they open their hearts how many lights, how much beatific oceans. That’s why we celebrate these holy nights as a reminder to them who are at the stations of immense outpourings, immense blessings. Ya Sayyidi ya Mawlana Shaykh (Q) you are the king of ishq and muhabbat in which your kindness was overwhelming to everyone. We gathered and we’re giving you the gift of our zikr, our nasheeds (songs of praise), our salawats (praises upon Prophet Muhammad ﷺ). All the food that we distribute, all the actions that we’re doing is for what? To gain their nazar, their gaze. That, send your love upon us, send your ishq upon us and fill our hearts with these good characteristics.
So that they’re always with us, watching us, guiding us, blessing our family, blessing our children until that the child can reach an age of maturity in which at that time they’re responsible to take their bay’at with the shaykh. They’re responsible now to put the shaykh’s love in their heart and do their awrads, their zikrs and their practices. But before that age of maturity, they’re relying on the love of their parents, to have that light in it and Allah (AJ) gave an ability, ‘Yes, you can by loving them.’ You’ll carry who you love in your heart. We pray that Allah (AJ) open us, open our hearts and dress us from the immensity of these blessings and that Allah (AJ) grant us from the love and the ishq of Sultanul Awliya Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Nazim Haqqani (Q) in a ever-difficult world.
In An Ever-Difficult World Leave Badness and Go Back to the Way of Love
Those that are not able to express love and everything is very competitive and conspiratorial, that to remind themselves to go back to the way of ishq and muhabbat. That when somebody doesn’t want to interact with a shaykh or interact with somebody that it only takes love. That you have to conquer the ego of personalities and that open the heart to move into the presence of ‘ashiqeen. We pray that Allah (AJ) bring those whom have that love closer together, inshaAllah.
Subhana rabbika rabbal ‘izzati ‘amma yasifoon, wa salaamun ‘alal mursaleen, walhamdulillahi rabbil ‘aalameen. Bi hurmati Muhammad al-Mustafa ﷺ wa bi siri Surat al-Fatiha.
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Original Date of Suhbah: January 28, 2023
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