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Protecting Kids From Negative Energies, Evil Eye Nazar, etc. Q&A

May 31, 2023 June 1, 2023

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From the Realities of Mawlana (Q) as taught by Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi.

A’uzu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

I seek refuge in Allah from Satan, the rejected one
In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful

Alhamdulillahi Rabbil ‘aalameen, was salaatu was salaamu ‘alaa Ashrafil Mursaleen, Sayyidina wa Mawlana Muhammadul Mustafa ﷺ. Madad ya Sayyidi ya Rasulul Kareem, Ya Habibul ‘Azeem, unzur halana wa ishfa’lana, ‘abidona bi madadikum wa nazarekum.

Question 1: Sayyidi I’m the only one that tries to guide my children in the family. The rest of the family are wahhabis, unfortunately. Please advise Sayyidi, please forgive me.

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: Yeah, increase the love. You know that the bees, and you look and there’ll be many signs in natures. Because we said this is the natural religion.

That, the bees they circumambulate the queen and without the queen, they don’t produce sweetness. You know that if you take the queen out, they don’t know what to do and they don’t produce any honey in their hives. Yeah, they produced it because of the presence of a queen and as a result, they circumambulate that reality. So that love they have, bonds them all. You take the queen, the whole hive starts to move.

A wasp, which they’re alike, doesn’t have a queen and produces no honey and all it has is a stinger that hurts people. So what can you do about something that produces no honey, has no benefit and just stings people? So they’re devoid of ishq, they’re devoid of love, they’re devoid of an understanding of love. Everything they want is to approach Allah (AJ) through the head. Where Allah (AJ) didn’t ever say, ‘I reside within the head and that faith is in the head.’ That, this dead body goes back into the ground and what you’re going to do with your head? Usually by 80, your dementia kicked in and you have no head. So it means that ishq (love) and muhabbat and Islam and iman (faith) wal Ihsan (Moral Excellence) is in the qalb (heart). “Qalb al mu’min baytullah.”

قَال رَسُولَ اللَّه ﷺ، قَالْ اللَّه عَزَ وَجَلْ: ” قَلْبَ الْمُؤْمِنْ بَيْتُ الرَّب.” [حَدِيثْ اَلْقُدْسِي]

Qala Rasulallahi ﷺ, Qala Allah (AJ): “ “Qalb al mu’min baytur rabb.” [Hadith al Qudsi]

The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, that Allah (AJ) said: “The heart of the believer is the House of the Lord.” (Holy Hadith)

So those whom are devoid of love then what can you do? Nothing. So then you increase your love, you increase the madad (support), you increase the practices then that’s enough. You increase your love to the children so that their bond for you is stronger than the bond for anyone else in the home. They rely upon your love, your affection, your counsel, your reliance. So because that works. So if they’re devoid of love, they’re very hard to love even for children. As they don’t love the Divine then nothing on this Earth loves them. So they generally have very harsh relationships with relatives, with children, with offspring so that shouldn’t be any competition. So if one in the house is loving then all will be attracted to the love and the sincerity of that individual. So they should have no difficulty.

But if you don’t have love with the children and you’re continuously fierce and harsh, you’re breaking this bond. That’s why we said this western understanding of put them in a room, let them scream, let them lose all their natural instincts that, ‘You’re my provider, you’re my protector.’ Then know that they’re being attacked while they’re screaming because there’s other beings coming in with all of that energy that they’re transmitting and attacking them.

So the whole of this relationship and its secret is love. When you build that bond of love then the other people who don’t operate with love, you’ve got no competition! That’s why in our way too, we talk a lot about love and the other shaykhs don’t like us. We don’t have any competition because anyone who likes to go around and hang out with people who don’t like love, ahlan wa sahlan (welcome and be at ease), go enjoy yourself! Two days of that you’re gonna get sick and you come back to the oceans of love. So it’s no competition, can’t compete with… Anybody want to sit with something that is not loving, ‘No it’s hard, you say it’s too much.’ So love is you know like a queen bee – it attracts a lot and the khidmat (service) of our students is the honey, right? They’re producing honey where the other groups don’t produce – nothing. Right? And when they don’t produce anything and they begin to be belligerent and bad manners means that you’re breeding wasps. Something what you’re doing is not right because your jama’ah (community) become like wasps. They’re aggressive and attacking everybody on the internet.

But if you’re like the queen bee means you put out a frequency and a vibe of ishq and muhabbat of Prophet ﷺ and a soft demeanor. Because they’re like children that have to come for nurturing. What happens? These guys are making an immense amount of honey. They go out and they’re doing this and that and thousands of wells. The proof is in the pudding – it’s in what’s manifested. It’s not what Michael always talks about – philosophy. It’s not a philosophy, it’s a proof. It’s in the annual report. How many thousands, hundreds of thousands of pounds of food that we picked up around the world? Yeah. So that’s the symbol of it. Allah (AJ) said, ‘If you do it with love, people will come.’ If you’re going to do it by force and anger and criticisms and name callings and labeling, it’s not going to work. Then you’re just going to produce a hive of wasps. That, as soon as you try to put a post in their group, wow! They start attacking and cursing and using horrific names against an Ahlul Bayt (Holy Family of Prophet ﷺ), a shaykh and a learned individual who holds an ijazah (authorization) from Shaykh Nazim (Q) – Sultanul Awliya (King of Saints). So what kind of manners these people have? That proof is in that pudding. Tabasco!

Audience: We love you Sayyidi

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: We love you too, thank you.

Question 2: What is the age of maturity for children? What was the age you were saying?

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: 18

Audience: 18, okay.

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: That you teach, teach, accompany them and then befriends with them. So when they start to go off, you know nobody took the highway completely straight. Everybody went off-road and off-course and in all different directions. So Prophet ﷺ is then warning for us then keep their friendship. They’re going to do things that are not pleasing to you, keep their friendship.

As a result of their friendship, your love is still all around them trying to guide them. If you break the friendship, that’s as good as saying, ‘You’re in the devil’s hands now.’ Our life is busy taking people to paradise not working for shaitan (satan) – to take them to jahannam (hellfire). So the prescription that Prophet ﷺ gave was immense in energy realities that, ‘Create a bond of love.’

أَنَسَ بْنَ مَالِكٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ يُحَدِّثُ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ أَنَّهُ قَالَ‏ “‏ أَكْرِمُوا أَوْلاَدَكُمْ … ‏”‏ ‏

Anas bin Malik (ra) yuhaddithu ‘an Rasulullahi ﷺ annahu qala: “Akrimu awladakum…” (Sunan Ibn Majah: 3671)

Anas bin Malik (ra) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said: “Be kind to your children…” (Sunan Ibn Majah: 3671)

Since they have love, you’ll teach like the shaykhs. Because when they love you they’re eager to learn everything you have to teach with a soft voice – no screaming, no yelling. Just softness, softness and then as a result you’ve nurtured them, they’ll go and start doing their own life and whatever Allah’s (AJ) written for them. But at least the friendship with them will keep your light all around them. So in their time of need, and everybody enters into times of need, that they’ll be able to reach out to you. Because you’ve kept that friendship and that bond, inshaAllah.

Question 3: Sayyidi how do we discipline them [children] without anger?

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: You should never discipline from anger. If Allah (AJ) wanted to discipline you with anger then every time you didn’t praise, a piece of wood would fall off the roof of your house and hit you in the head. What are you talking about?

Allah (AJ) didn’t do anything with anger. Why would you do with anger? As soon as anger entered, you did it wrong. So it’s about disciplining the children on what’s right and wrong in the actions. When they see anger and they see, you know, the anger is coming, they know this is no longer right and wrong, this is just rage. That’s when you have to stop. You go make wudu (ablution), pray your Salatul Wudu (Prayer of Ablution), ask for Allah (AJ) to give you strength and then recalibrate yourself that, ‘I have to raise them with ishq and muhabbat.’ That’s a great jihad (struggle). Nobody said this was going to be easy. To raise and to do what Allah (AJ) wants is immensely difficult. Because now you’re facing obstacles that are unimaginable, unimaginable in the school systems and in society and every direction imaginable – they’re trying to destroy the children.

Audience: I think you already answered this but they said…

Question 4: Sayyidi, please tell me a remedy for anger.

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: You’ve got to get all the books. That’s the whole energy teaching, everything’s energy teaching, meditation teaching – everything. So get on the program, get the books, do the meditation, read the book on energy, the healing energy, angelic energy. If you read Urdu, we have the Urdu version of the energy book and angelic qudra (power). It’s the whole system because the most dangerous bad character is anger, now for everything. Because anger will make all the bad characteristics ignite.

So our life is again a continuous struggle just to drop the anger, drop the anger. So you make your wudu, keep yourself in wudu, do your salawats (praises upon Prophet Muhammad ﷺ), do all your awrads (daily practices). So that, that companionship of positive energy is with you. When you go out and go into public, go to work, go to these environments, come home and wash. Don’t bring the energy back into the home environment and start to interact with everybody at home with all of this crazy energy. So go home, immediately wash, do some of your namaz (prayer) and then interact with the home clean. So that not to bring that energy and now have confrontation with everybody based on that energy, inshaAllah.

Question 5: Isn’t making TikTok videos haram (forbidden)? Forgive me for my ignorance and bad adab (manners).

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: Yes. If you’re making a TikTok it’s haram because you’re going to lose your modesty if you make TikToks. But if you’re going to put onto their platform Islamic teachings and zikrs (Divine remembrance) and our videos then alhamdulillah you’re entering and throwing it into shaitan’s playground. But definitely to make your own account and start interacting in there, it’s a source of great fitna (confusion). And all social media, your phone everything, there’s nothing excluded from that understanding. Not the verdict of haram but it’s extremely bad energy.

So we’ll start with your phone, if it’s for the purpose of immoral images and actions well then that’s already gives its answer. Then any social media, email, anything that people are doing, if it’s for a purpose other than what is halal (permissible) then you’re in a danger zone. So that’s the purpose of teaching people that put out the videos, propagate the information. That you’re already there on these social media platforms, then put out the videos, put out on Facebook – the videos, propagate the articles.

Do these good works in these forums and bring people back towards these realities and towards a sense of hope. Because so many of the wasps have scared people away from Islam. So they walked away from it and they went into the fields of shaitan. So when you take it and put out the honey and put out sort of this compassionate form of teaching, loving form of teaching, energy based teachings, you may attract a lot of people back. Because Rabbil Mumineen wa Rabbil Kafireen wa Rabbil ‘aalameen (Lord of the Believers and Unbelievers and Lord of All Worlds). That Allah (AJ) is Lord over all His creation so we are responsible to bring people back to the love and the ishq of Allah (AJ) and Sayyidina Muhammad ﷺ, inshaAllah.

Question 6: Sayyidi how can someone suffering from OCD get relief?

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: Yeah the OCD I think we’ve talked about that before in energy, these are all energy related. So you have to build your energy because something is waswasing (whispering) to you. So we talked many times that if we believe that 99 percent of sicknesses are energy related, if you address not only the physical aspect of sicknesses with medicines and treatments but to address the spiritual implications of what’s going on.

If there’s energies around a person because waswas and OCDs is so interestingly involving waswas because somebody’s hearing something, so from who? That, ‘Your wash was not complete, your wash was not good enough, that go wash again, go wash again, go wash again,’ means the shaitan is too close to you. So you have to build your energy, do your meditation, do your spiritual practices. As a result of those practices, it should be pushing away that fear – because fear is the opposite of faith – and that waswas.

inside vs outside pills vs prayers spirit vs science So then build your practices, build your energies, do the meditations. If that’s not working and you require medicine then you take the medicines and then do the practices and begin to confront the fear. If you’re scared of dirty things, put your hand in the backyard, put it in the soil and begin to teach yourself you’re clean. Not clean, it doesn’t matter, go do your prayers. So you have to confront what’s coming after you. So don’t run from it, don’t give in to it and don’t listen to it because the OCD is the same as the people whom are hearing things and then acting on it. They fight and yell at, scream at everyone because they sense they heard something, they have an intuition towards something.

No intuition from Allah (AJ) is bad about somebody. Because Allah’s (AJ) attribute Al-Sattar (The Veiler) and the angels are locked under these attributes of Al-Sattar. They don’t reveal people’s faults. So it’s not from Allah (AJ), it’s from shaitan. ‘Oh you know that one is like this, he ate your grilled cheese.’ Then you come out and say, ‘Oh you know I’m inspired you did that,’ then they start to fight. It means they listened to every whisper and they act on it. If you do that then the shaitan comes all the time around that person thinking, ‘This is a great person. As soon as we talk to them, they go yell, scream, fight with everyone,’ and then they think they’re having inspirations. No, those are not inspirations. Because the sifat (attribute) of Allah (AJ) is not something breakable – when Allah (AJ) conceals, He conceals. So He doesn’t give people to understand something about someone else – that’s something completely different. For guidance it’s something a completely different understanding. If Allah (AJ) wants to give a guide a way and an understanding on how to guide His servant but doesn’t conceal their faults and to ridicule and to attack people with, inshaAllah.

Question 7: What is the reality of vegan meats? There is a desire from the companies and the World Economic Forum to convert the world to vegan meat. Are they halal ? Thank you for your guidance.

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: I don’t know about this halal, not halal stuff. I don’t know what aspect of vegan would be un-halal. But if they later find out that there’s a whole bunch of chemicals and additives and all sorts of bizarre elements then later they have to make a ruling on that. But until they come out and say, ‘Oh you know, all these chemicals they actually kill you to make this thing look like and taste like meat.’ It’s not natural proteins and it’s not soy. It has many different elements within it and too much of that soy they found that will destroy your brain and destroy your brain function. Again, anytime you try to imitate Allah (AJ), you’re going to have a big problem in your life.

So our western diet is contrived of corn syrup. Nothing is real in the supermarket anymore. So when you’re eating unreal foods that are made from corn syrup, colored and painted in different things, of course everyone’s going to be sick and eventually die. Six out of seven is what they want gone. So if you can get meat and eat regular meat, alhamdulillah and if you don’t like to eat meat too often then don’t eat it that often. But stay away from a lot of these products that are not going to be good for you in abundance. So before they were saying, ‘Everybody have a soy patty,’ then they found it was causing brain problems and all sorts of other medical problems, soy products. Then they came and corrected, ‘Okay we can’t’. So you know a car that runs on gas, it runs on gas. You start throwing all the things in there, you’re going to have problems.

So Allah (AJ) designed us a certain way so best to keep with the way in which Allah (AJ) designed us. That, eat your meat, eat your balanced diets, stay away from your carbohydrates and sugars and lower those items within your body, those are all poisons for the body. In which Prophet ﷺ described, ‘I fear the two whites for my nation,’ and that was salt and sugar. And so anything that’s high in salts and high in sugars those then Prophet ﷺ described and advised for us to abstain and to keep away from, inshaAllah.

Question 8: Forgive me for my bad adab. How to bring back kids who are adults, back to life and love for family if they are struggling in life?

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: Yeah, that’s you got your work cut out for you. So you have to rebuild your connection of love to rebuild the bond of love and to, you know, compensate for what went wrong. Try to re-establish a connection of love and respect.

If you’re trying to bring them towards guidance then it’s best that you’re already on guidance. So that when you reconnect the love then you set by example that your character is back to being loving. That you’re following this path and then you begin to teach them based on this path, ‘I understood the wrong I did and I understand the bad characteristics.’ Then there’s hope that they may follow what you’re following. But if they’re going to just listen to what you say but your actions are something different, it doesn’t work for anyone to listen to someone who doesn’t do what they’re talking about. So we have to walk the walk and talk the talk, inshaAllah.

Question 9: If the ones that love us are entitled to the light of the love we develop then is it the same true if we’re battling darkness? Will our kids be affected by that?

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: Yeah, of course. If you have darkness all around you and negative energies all around you, do you think the children are going to be not affected by negative energy? Of course! So we have other talks on that. Right? So when people distance themselves from these types of circles that Allah (AJ) gave as a blessing and a ni’mat (blessing) then whatever negative energy adults bring into the home environment then the purest light is going to carry that. Just the law of energy, you know, the negative is going to go to the more powerful positive. So who’s the more powerful positive? The ones who came most recent from heaven. The one who’s been walking this Earth long time and sinning? No, it’s not as powerful as the one whose feet just left paradise.

Sick Child Children Carry Burden So it’s the children that carry the burdens in homes that don’t do zikr, don’t do spiritual practices because they’re like a magnet or sponge for energy. People come and kiss them and hold them and all the energy is just going into them. So then you have to make like a wudu for the children and wash them and alhamdulillah. Keep people from not kissing them and cover their body parts, cover their arms, cover their legs, don’t expose their body parts because people’s nazar (gaze) and eyes and energies will affect these parts of the body. So some people like when the legs of the baby are big and chubby and they like to show to everybody. No, cover their legs, cover their arms and this shields them as a protection for them. Don’t let anyone kiss the child upon the lips and if anything kiss their feet and that’s enough, yeah.

So you have to sort of shield the child, he has no voice. So they’re depending upon the ‘aqel (intellect) and the understanding of the parents to protect them inshaAllah. Then wash them after people have left and so that they’re in their wudu and that they’re clean with the energy and feel good with the energy, inshaAllah.

Question 10: By giving too much love to the kids, won’t it spoil them? How to balance? Can you please shed some light on that?

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi: Yeah, everything has to be a balance. I don’t know if people give too much love. But you know if we say, ‘Paint this white.’ You say, ‘How white? Is it slightly white or…’ But then become the nation of Nabi Musa (as). So we’re going to avoid that. That, just be loving. ‘Is too loving this much, is loving that much, is it yellow, is it like green, is it greenish yellow’. Yeah, so just keep it with love.

Subhana rabbika rabbal ‘izzati ‘amma yasifoon, wa salaamun ‘alal mursaleen, walhamdulillahi rabbil ‘aalameen. Bi hurmati Muhammad al-Mustafa wa bi siri Surat al-Fatiha.

Special thanks to our transcribers for their help with transcribing this suhbah.

Original Date of Suhbah: January 28, 2023

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