Effects On Soul When Loving Right People vs Wrong People

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From the Realities of Mawlana (Q) as taught by Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi

أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ ٱلْرَّجِيمِ
بِسْمِ ٱللَّهِ ٱلرَّحْمَٰنِ ٱلرَّحِيمِ

A’uzu Billahi Minash Shaitanir Rajeem
Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem

I seek refuge in Allah (AJ) from the accursed Satan
In the Name of Allah, the Most Compassionate, the Most Merciful

Alhamdulillahi Rabbil ‘aalameen, was salaatu was salaamu ‘alaa Ashrafil Mursaleen, Sayyidina wa Mawlana Muhammadul Mustafa ﷺ. Madad ya Sayyidi ya Rasulul Kareem, Ya Habibul ‘Azeem, unzur halana wa ishfa’lana, ‘abidona bi madadikum wa nazarekum.

Atiullah wa atiur Rasul wa Ulil amre minkum. Always a reminder for myself, ana abdukal ‘ajeez, wa dayeef, wa miskin, wa zhalim, wa jahl, and but for the grace of Allah (AJ) that we’re still in existence.

أَطِيعُوا اللَّهَ وَأَطِيعُوا الرَّسُولَ وَأُولِي الْأَمْرِ مِنكُم… ﴿٥٩﴾‏ …

4:59 – “…Atiullaha wa atiur Rasula wa Ulil amre minkum…” (Surat an-Nisa)

“…Obey Allah, obey the Messenger, and those in authority among you…” (The Women, 4:59)

Enter Divine Presence by Bringing Down the Bad Character Within

Alhamdulillah, that Allah (AJ) granted us to enter into the holy month of Shawwal and the realities of the binary code and the reality of 10 and the Heavenly Kingdom. After leaving or being dressed by the blessings of Ramadan, in which to bring the bad character down. To become dust to enter into the Divinely Presence. Our path is based on effacing oneself and recognizing the bad character. Bringing the bad character down to the best of our ability. That to have good character to enter into the Divinely Presence. Alhamdulillah, that awliyaullah (saints) keep the way of the Divinely Presence as a door upon this Earth. To remind the Earth of its humanity and to remind the Earth of the Heavenly Kingdom.

Remember You’re a Spiritual Being on Earth for a Purpose

The satanic abode and the abode of egos and bad character want us to forget the Heavenly Kingdom. To govern ourselves with bad character upon this Earth and thinking that everything ends here and begins here. Where in reality our journey is from the heavens and to the heavens we shall return.

We are spiritual beings sent for a physical experience to achieve a greater spiritual rank and reality. The experiences that we acquire on our journey through this Earth determines our spiritual growth and the rank of our spiritual reality in the Divinely Presence. We come onto the Earth and what we call shaitan (satan) and negative energies, they come to fool us. They make us to forget our spiritual journey. That from the heavens we came and to the heavens we shall return.

Be with Whom You Love and Whom You Love will Be with You

By the grace of Allah (AJ), by the grace of the Divinely Presence, gives guidance upon the Earth. The fountains of guidance are the oasises of awliyaullah. These awliya are ‘ashiqeen (lovers) and muhibbin (lovers of the way) of Sayyidina Muhammad ﷺ. By virtue of that love and by virtue of that good character and the reality of love in which draws their soul near to his ﷺ holy presence. As a result, his ﷺ presence dresses them.

man looking up at shaykh nurjan picture The reality of love is that you be with whom you love and whom you love will be with you.

عَنْ أَنَسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ: … فَقَالَ (رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ): ” أَنْتَ مَعَ مَنْ أَحْبَبْتَ.” [اَلْمَصْدَرْ: مُسْلِمْ ٧٥٢٠ ]

‘An Anasin (ra): … Faqala (Rasulullahi) ﷺ: “Anta ma’a man ahbabta.”

Narrated Anas ibn Malik (ra) that …the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said: “You will be with whom you love.” [Source: Muslim 7520]

But pray that you love the right person. That love that you have, it should change you, it should dress you, and it should bless you. If we love those from the heavens and those whom the heavens love, then we should find ourself that this love of ours dresses us. Blesses us, gives us good character, and good manners.

Avoid Loving the Wrong People to Preserve Your Soul’s Purity

There are people who love the wrong people, they love bad people. As a result of that love that they have, that also dresses them. But from badness and from bad character. They make a bond within their heart and their soul towards that evilness. It is the evilness in which they acquire, and they take that evilness to their grave and into the hereafter. That Allah (AJ), through all holy books and all realities, gives to us a warning that to love whom God loves. By virtue of that love, you should be accompanying goodness. By virtue of that love, it changes your character towards goodness. So, in which to exhibit the manners of the heavens, it doesn’t need a book to define it. It is already in our common sense, the character of goodness, the character of compassion, and the character of mercy.

(١١٩) يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اتَّقُوا اللّهَ وَكُونُوا مَعَ الصَّادِقِينَ

9:119 – “Ya ayyuhal ladheena amanoo ittaqollaha wa kono ma’as sadiqeen.” (Surat At-Tawba)

“O you who have believed, have consciousness of Allah and be with those who are truthful/Pious/sincere (in words and deed).” (The Repentance, 9:119)

Live Every Moment Under the Blessings of “Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem”

We’ve said many times before, the theme of our entire religion is “Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem.” If we carry that theme in our life, carry that theme in our meditations, carry that theme in every action that we do. That we say ‘In the Name of God Most Compassionate and Most Merciful.’ That both compassion upon this Earth and mercy and compassion upon the heavens, that is the theme of our entire existence upon this Earth. Mawlana Shaykh (Q) would say if we can govern ourselves by “Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem” that, what we want to do, we say “Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem.” What we want to eat, we say “Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem.” Whatever future we’re planning for ourselves, we say “Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem” – In the name of Allah (AJ) Most Compassionate and Most Merciful. If what we want to do and we can’t say “Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem” then abstain and don’t do it. That this is the fruit and the beauty and the flavor of our lives.

Have Good Character, Be Like the Flower in Divine Light

We pray that Allah (AJ) give us good character. That Allah (AJ) give us this ‘ishq and this love a Divinely love within our heart and soul that draws us near to the Divinely Presence. As a result of Divinely Presence and drawing near, it begins to dress us and fragrance us. We said before that the reality of the Divinely love is like the sun and the analogy of the sun. That by the virtue of the sun shining, all the beatific flowers release their fragrance. They merely have to stare at the sun, and as a result, the sun brings out their natural sweetness and natural fragrances. We pray that Allah (AJ) grant us from that sun, that ‘ishq, that love, and that Nurul Muhammadi ﷺ (light of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ). These are from the lights of Holy Companions, the lights of Ahlul Bayt (Holy Family of Prophet ﷺ). The lights of awliyaullah who all are ‘ashiqeen and muhibbin and the lovers of Sayyidina Muhammad ﷺ.

Become a Muhammadan Flower Spreading Divine Fragrance in Darkness

If Allah (AJ) grant for us to bask in that sun, to look into that sun, into that light, into that reality. It is an analogy, then we too can become Gul e Muhammadi ﷺ (rose). The beatific roses of the Divinely Presence in which they absorb these Divinely lights. They give back to humanity the fragrance and the beauty that humanity is in need of. Especially when overtaken by the dirtiness and the evilness of shayateen (devils) and negative energies. That only want negativity and difficulty and hardship upon humanity. We pray that Allah (AJ) bless us and dress us, our families, our communities, and our loved ones.

Subhana rabbika rabbal ‘izzati ‘amma yasifoon, wa salaamun ‘alal mursaleen, walhamdulillahi rabbil ‘aalameen. Bi hurmati Muhammad al-Mustafa ﷺ wa bi siri Surat al-Fatiha.

Special thanks to our transcribers for their help with transcribing this suhbah.

Original Date of Suhbah: April 13, 2024

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